The Greatest Love Of All

Be The Hero for Your Children & All Children! Be the inspiration for them to have The Greatest Love of All... A Love of Themselves :)

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

The Lifeline Network answers thousands of calls from people in emotional distress. There are many reasons for their calls. Please call for any of the following reasons: 

• Suicidal thoughts
• Information on suicide
• Information on mental health/illness
• Substance abuse/addiction
• To help a friend or loved one
• Relationship problems

• Abuse/violence
• Economic problems
• Sexual orientation issues
• Physical illness
• Loneliness
• Family problems

GHS Mission Statement

GHS Mission Statement... Please read the last line.  What is your thinking or take? 


The mission of GHS is to help all students become responsible, self-directed learners capable of functioning in today’s ever-changing society. GHS is committed to helping all students develop the skills necessary to thrive in the face of life’s challenges. This will take place in a secure environment free from violence, drugs, and fear.

Its on their website check for yourself.

http://www.gordonsvillehighschool.com/Gordonsville_High_School/Welcome.html

Code of Ethics

Ever wonder what the code of ethics is for educators.  Here is a link for you.

http://aaeteachers.org/index.php/about-us/aae-code-of-ethics

Title IV - Part A

Please share your take on this.

http://www.tn.gov/education/safe_schls/safety_cntr/safe_drug_free.shtml

The Cake Is Gone

After all the Facebook posts I think I finally understand World Peace & Harmony... Thank you everyone so making it so clear. Here is how it works for those that don't know.... 1. Parents teach your children sticks & stones at home & turning the other cheek they will need it not just in life but at school too. After all "Kids will be Kids" & Its been that way for years so get over it. 2. Put God back in our schools because we want our children to learn about religion in our public schools. That way we can all be alike and have the same beliefs. 3. Bring back discipline at schools & home. Nothing like a trip to the woodshed to make things right. 4. Pray about it. Suck up those tears and bruises drop to your knees and lets pray. I admit I'm confused by this one but I was told it works and solves everything so Let's Pray. 5. The schools aren't responsible for raising our children they are there to teach. So they will be taking Title IV Grants away and everyone go back to Rule 1. OMG I think they just found grant money to put towards our nations debt.... YAY.... Let's celebrate . I'm running to SAMs to get s'mores. Someone bring firewood and we can all sit around the fire while we eat s'mores and sing "We Are The World".... As soon as I receive the dress code, music approved list and what we are allowed to talk about then I will forward it to everyone!!! PS There won't be any cake it's all gone.

I posted that to be sarcastic but I have thought a lot as I read comments that say it starts at home, pray for the situation, put God back in our schools, take responsibility for what happens in your life and my favorite of all it's not the schools, administration or teachers responsibility to raise your children.

So I ask & welcome your thoughts to help me understand.

1. It starts at home. I agree it does start at home but what if you do right in your home but Lil Johnny next door parents aren't? What if you teach your child to be kind and the sticks & stone rule but Lil Betty at school hasn't been taught any golden rules? By not being taught at home or having any kind of a home life they treat other children horrible do you say nothing since Lil Johnny or Lil Betty weren't raised right after all kids will be kids and it's been going on for ages... Right? I ask you to think about this before you answer... Would you feel the same way if Lil Johnny or Lil Betty was making your child miserable at school or making them hate school? What if Lil Johnny or Lil Betty weren't Lil at all but were adults that you sent your child to learn from?

2. Put prayer back in school... While I do believe in prayer can we pray for people and can we change a situation with prayer and prayer alone? Is prayer the answer to every problem in the world? Should we not pray about the situation but still act to help those in need? If your child came home everyday crying and had to take medicine to not threw up because just being at school stressed them out would you look at them and say pray about it?

3. Put God back in our schools. I'm sorry but I have read so many bible comments that I would have a problem with some of these narrow minded people teaching my children about God. I think religion and ones belief is a private matter and should be taught at home. As many of you have said its not a teachers responsibility to raise my child then why in the world would I want them to teach my child about religion and their beliefs? Isn't God in schools because he is walking with those that believe? My child might believe have God walking with them daily but not everyone does and then you have the spouters & hypocrites shoving their beliefs, how you should live your life and what's right vs wrong but that's a whole debate in itself. Church and school is a separate place and should remain that way unless of course it is a private school that what I believe but of course I could be wrong.

4. Take responsibility for what happens in your life. I must say that comment confuses me... You can't control what happens in your life but you can control how you handle it. Am I missing something can someone control everything that happens in their life?

5. It's not the schools, teachers or administration responsibility to raise children. As a parent I agree it isn't their responsibility to raise children but it is their responsibility to make sure our children have a safe environment to learn in. Am I wrong in my thinking if so why does our schools take grant money from the Title IV program? If they aren't responsible for making sure our children are safe from bullying, being harassed or being physically assaulted then they shouldn't be responsible in babysitting children for drugs, alcohol or tobacco. Shouldn't it be the parents responsibility to raise & teach their children about drugs, alcohol and tobacco not a schools? Isn't it wrong to take grant money if your picking and choosing which part of Title IV is or isn't your responsibility? I'm sorry but if my job paid me to do ABC and I only did B do you think I would still be paid or get to keep my job?

I know I am opening my self up here but I also want to add I believe in Freedom of Speech. As posted on my blog since I started it we are all adults so please act adult when offering your take. I won't allow any name calling of any students past or present or sharing of stories unless you have proof. No he said she said. I started this blog to explain my families story and to share the how policies and laws were being broken. My fight isn't about having people arrested or lining my pockets. It's about our community opening their eyes and knowing what's going on in our schools and school system. With that being said Debate Away!

Take Responsibility

After reading posts, messages and comments on many sites regarding the recent death of a young 14 year old boy I realize no one really gets it. As a community we are so busy pointing fingers, blaming the parents, family, churches, schools, teachers, goverments and the most shocking part the victims themselves. This isn’t about blame it’s about all of us as a community taking responsibility and standing up for the children in our community. Not just one group of children but all children. Not every child that has the perfect home life, loving parents, understanding family, goes to church and gets good grades leads a charmed life just like every child troubled doesn’t come from broken homes, have bad parents, doesn’t attend church, is failing school or on drugs. I have seen troubled lonely children from the best of families to the worst of families. We as adults, parents, pastors, teachers, babysitters, coaches, administrators, counselors, neighbors, etc, etc and etc need to start showing we care and we are there for all children not just a select few that fit into the mold we all have.

IT GETS BETTER - No One Says it Better Then Kermit

For all the kids out there if your lost talk to someone... To everyone else out there if you know something going on DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT... LIVES ARE AT STAKE!!!!

Children Are Our Future

After reading all the finger pointing I posted on a site I said I never would. That was my first and last post!!!

SMITH COUNTY RESIDENTS.....WHAT ELSE HAS TO HAPPEN IN OUR COUNTY BEFORE SOMETHING IS DONE????

I have never posted on this site but I have heard enough. Product of your home environment? I feel for this family & am praying for them. How heartbreaking to put their little boy to rest because he was so lost from the meanness of others.. While it is true that none of us will ever know how he felt but the words of the other kids at school as to what happened are screaming volumes to me. I had two out of three of my children that attended Gordonsville bullied, harassed, grabbed, shoved, humilited, retaliated against, locked in a room so other parents could confront them, physically abused and ridiculed. In the words of some of you... Kids will Kids right? Well guess what it wasn't kids doing it but teachers. Not all teachers just two. I went to the school, Janice Fox, Roger Lewis and the school board. I could have owned Smith County School District but felt what would that prove without change. I took the high road went through the channels, filled out the paperwork, attended meetings and talked and talked and talked. Heck I even started a blog to share my journey. Surprise surprise after two years it got me now where and the teachers responsible still walk the halls of GHS and continued to harass one of my children. Roger Lewis kept it at the school level so the board wouldn't even talk to me. So I ask all of you this... What is it going to take to change our schools? What more has to happen before people say enough is enough. Maybe instead of fighting with yourselves as to who is at fault or the reason maybe we should stand together and make some changes before this happens to another child. As for the home environment comment what do you have to say to a parent that is there for their kids? Whose kids were involved in school, set good examples, didnt get in trouble and aren't on drugs? My children aren't perfect as no one is but did they deserve this abuse by the very people that are suppose to protect them? If I was abusing them at home they would be the first to call the law... So who do the parents call? Who is responsible? Where do we go when the people we elected turn their backs because it a school problem but the school won't do anything? When I started my blog 3 board members told me to call and email which I did. Guess what not one of them called me back. Was that for public show to make everyone feel like they care? I don't know you tell me....

Let Your Voice Be Heard

Want to the help the students of Smith County School District below are the names and contact information for our school board members.

District 1 - Karen Shoulders 615-677-6136

District 2- Richard Fulton 615-735-2656

District 3 - William Barrick 615-683-4779

District 4 - Joe Taylor 615-735-2719

District 5 - Tommy Manning 615-683-6209

District 6 - Michael Collins 615-735-1101

District 7 - Sonja Hammond 615-735-1065

District 8 - Tim Maynard 615-897-2544

Want to stop the bullying and make our schools safe call your board member or call them all. The board will be interviewing for a new school director make sure your voice is heard.

Prayers & Sympathy

I haven't been on my blog for two years but I would like to say I'm very saddened to learn about the suicide of a young 14 year old boy from Gordonsville. I didn't know this little boy personally but just the same it breaks my heart to know his death was caused by bullying at school. Prayers & sympathy go out to his family.