I understand that this is a TSSAA rule that every school, coach and administration must enforce and I think it is important. If the TSSAA states these forms are to be on file (under lock & key for privacy) with the principal and our daughter completed her physical with the rest of the athletes of the school with no problems reported to the trainer, why was she told until she hand delivered her form she would not be allowed to practice or participate when the school already had her form on file? The teacher/sponsors excuse for this was our daughter was the only form she didn't have, the rest of the squad had turned their forms in to her completed. That was her response on July 25th, 2008 when my husband asked her in front of the principal as to why our daughter was singled out in front of the entire squad. During our conversation without any investigation into the matter by the principal, he just agreed with the teacher and brushed the issue off.
After doing some research on my own before July 25th, 2008 to make sure we had the facts before our meeting with the principal and teacher/sponsor this is what I found:
1. Our child was the only one from her squad that went with the school for a physical.
2. In late May when she singled out our child more then half of the parents told me their child had not even had a physical completed.
3. On July 25th, 2008 based on what their parents told me there were still several squad members that had not had their physical completed or turned in.
4. Not one coach from any of the sports at GHS received the physical forms in hand, our trainer received all of the athletes forms for our school to return to the school to be filed.
5. While checking around as to the the physical dates of some of the other squad members the parents involved were upset over the fact that this teacher/sponsor made the decision not to include the squad in the free physical program with the school, she told the girls they were on their own to pay out of pocket for their physicals. Her excuse for this after being questioned was that the administration told her this activity wasn't covered under the school physical program. If that is true then that would mean the administration discriminated against these children by excluding them.
Here is the link to the TSSAA website regarding physicals and who is responsible for them.
Page 12 - Physical Exam - Section 10
All I can say is WOW! The principal isnt handling this based on policies or rules there is no other way to say it. Yes the teacher is at fault for the way she treated your child but the administration has let it continue.
ReplyDeleteif the tssaa says you have to have a physical on record then how was this request wrong. i think you are making something out of nothing.
ReplyDeleteThings are moving in the right direction. I heard that one of the many lawsuits pending DID NOT GET DISMISSED as Bellar had told the board at the last board meeting it would. Might be a good attorney for you to call to help with your fight.
ReplyDeleteAgain, I agree with GHS fan, if the coach asked for a form, you should have just retrieved it; everything does not have to be a drama. By reading this latest entry regarding the form, I am now beginning to wonder that because you did not see eye to eye with this coach from the get go, you were taking every meeting, discussion, etc. and trying to make it into an issue. One serious question, by this blog, aren't you doing the same things you are accusing others of...bullying, intimidation, slander, etc? Surely you see that?
ReplyDeleteI doesn't matter if the parents are the coaches biggest supporter or not. The coach dropped the ball when she treated this child different from the others. By asking for her physical and not the others that was wrong. Clearly the coach already had issues with this student. If she treats the members this way you can bet she is doing the same in the classroom. So you might want to think about that, if your kid is not one of her favorites their papers are probably graded harder than the others. By blogging they are getting the information out their, it would be easier to file a suit and if they want any resolution to this problem that is what they will haave to do. Because Mr. Lewis thinks he is above the law and that is why they thought the other suit would be dismissed. If you want any justice for your daughter you need to file while the fires are burning before it gets to late for your child. No child should be treated differently because of who they are or aren't.
ReplyDeleteFor the record I did try to track it down but the principal or trainer were not available the three times I tried to contact the school. Our daughters physical form was locked up with the trainer with all of the other athletes physicals at the school. Did every athlete of the school have to track down the trainer or principal during sumer break to hand deliver thier forms to the coaches of each sport? If she needed these forms in May and made an issue of our daughters not being in hand why was the rest of the squad allowed to attend camp and practice all summer without theirs?
ReplyDeleteHere is another fact for you to consider. This teacher/sponsor already had a medical release and doctor statement from our doctor that was given to her after a week long hospital stay. The school also had several medical releases and physical forms that were turned in through out the year from her orthopedic surgeon. How many do you think I need to hand over?
TSSAA states physical forms need to be on file with the principal not the coach which I complied with. So why did this coach feel she needed our daughters in hand? There are other issues to this story that I am not gong to go into that started my slander compaint. I will leave the rest of this in the hands of our investigators.
tigeralumni, if you were aware of what this teacher had said about this particular student, the least I would hope you would feel is appalled. If this teacher had said this about any of the GHS administrators daughters, she would have been fired with no questions asked. Not to mention, if the student had said this about the teacher, she would have been severely punished. This teacher gets to say anything about this student and suffers no repercussions.
ReplyDeletetigeralumni this is not DRAMA this is DISCRIMINATION. A teacher using her position to bully or intimidate is HARASSMENT. She not only is doing this to this child but her parents as well. Who cares if the parent does not see eye to eye with the teacher that does not give the teacher the right to grab or shove the child. That is AGAINST THE LAW! Maybe the teacher has something against the parents and is taking it out on the child. Lots of people do not like each other that does give them the right to go around grabbing, shoving, ruining the reputation and lives of innocent children. How will things ever change in our schools if we have teachers, principals, and administrators not taking any responsibilities? If I was the parents I would take it out of the hands of the school file charges in Wilson County and have the teacher ARRESTED! Saving us from all of the DRAMA.
ReplyDeleteI know for a fact that no other athlete at GHS or any other school has ever had to hand deliver a physical form to a coach if they attended physical day with all of the other counties. I graduated from, have athletes attending GHS and I have never had to track this form down at anytime. This teacher is using her power to take out her personal vendetta against this student and her parents, I am shocked the school is supporting her by allowing it. The fact nothing is being done is crazy & embarrasing to the entire Smith County School System.
ReplyDeletethanks to this teacher ghs lost one its biggest supporters. Maybe she has a problem with this mom because she is active at school and supports all of the kids that attend ghs. school spirit has suffered greatly by all of this but what is sad is it only affecting the kids.
ReplyDeleteMoral cowardice that keeps us from speaking our minds is as dangerous to this country as irresponsible talk. The right way is not always the popular and easy way. Standing for right when it is unpopular is a true test of moral character.
ReplyDeleteMargaret Chase Smith
Keep up the fight!
tigeralumni - Everyone has a right to free speech and opinion, school employees are public officals. Parents have the right to question school employees, request investigations to make sure policies are followed. If the teacher is in the right then why is the school refusing to investigate? What would the imtimidation, bullying or slander be against the author of this blog everyone including you has admitted this teacher grabbed & shoved these children. The other issues are mute at this point for me she broke the law. No way around it.
ReplyDeleteI commented somewhere else but feel I need to add mine here. Many of you are taking these complaints at face value. You will not get another side of this story because of the privacy law schools have. I hate that too, because I feel many of you are getting worked up and attaking someone who cannot defend themselves. If this teacher was such an abusive person, why did all the other athletes choose to stay with her? If we asked them what would they say about this teacher? I wish that all this drama would stop. I have never seen such a big bunch of complainers in my life. And no I don't believe this student was bullied, harrassed, or otherwise abused. I know that if that happened she would be gone. But if it was investigated and dismissed, then I feel this ghs parent just is too ticked off to give up and feels like she didn't get what she deserved. Now tell me how we know you are telling us the whole truth. Are we supposed to take all your accusations with no proof. If your child was so abused then you should call the police, unless of course you are afraid you will be charged for filing a false claim. It's too bad this drama keeps going and GHS is getting the bad rep.
ReplyDeleteIf you are in this county you know how they sweep things under the rug.Lewis rules with fear and intimidation. The teacher is from hear so of course she is in the right. She is also young another thing Lewis likes. They think if you ignore it long enough it goes away or people will just give up. The only way this kid will see justice is for the law to become involved. There were rumors before about this coach and nothing was done, no investigation. Someone needs to investigate and get to the bottom of this. What are our kids learning, if you know someone it dosen't matter what you do? If you complain it dosen't matter unless you are so in so. That who you are mattters more than if someone follows the rules. That the rules don't apply to all, only when Mr. Lewis and his followers want them to apply and to who they want them applied to. Mr. Lewis and Mrs. Fox dropped the ball, or better yet tried to hide it. KEEP GOING !! Your child needs justice not only for her, but for all the others in this county. Who aren't so and so kids.
ReplyDeleteanonymous, if you want to know how the other girls feel, ask them. when all of this started, I did some asking around, including some of the members of the team. from what I have heard from them, with the exception of maybe a couple of the girls, what everyone is saying about this teacher is true. most will tell you they saw themselves how she treated this particular student. I did ask one parent why their child didn't just quit and it seems that if they quit the team for ANY reason, they are never allowed to even try out again, even with another coach. I have gone into this teacher's room a couple of times to discuss my child with her and heard her use language she shouldn't be using at school. when I mentioned to the principal that I didn't think she should use that kind of language around her students' parents nor the students themselves, do you know what happened? nothing. she was doing the same thing the next time I had to go by her room. my child is not on her team and I would never allow her to even consider trying out with this woman as the coach. you say this is one sided, but when there are witnesses, who have nothing to do with the team, do you not believe them when they verify what this parent is saying? the bad rap for GHS is from a whole lot more than just what this parent has said. since my child got into jr high, I have found out a lot of things I didn't know about the school and none of them have been good. I really believe the school is just hoping this will all just go away without an investigation. and if an investigation was done, how come it seems none of the members of the team were spoken to, nor any of the parents or witnesses? what kind of investigation is that? just ask the teacher if it happened and then base your response on that. yeah, that's fair. but then, that seems to be gordonsville for you.
ReplyDeleteAs a former sports mom, I too feel the time has come to speak out on these issues. We have all figured out or heard by now, this "activity" you are talking about, ghsparent, is cheerleading. My daughter was also a GHS cheerleader, and I have to say, despite all the infighting, bickering, and control issues, she actually enjoyed her cheer years. Even to this day, she will tell you that these were some of the happiest times of her life, because she knew that she was there for one purpose: to cheer on the teams, not get involved in the side issues.
ReplyDeleteThere were times I disagreed with the coach; not this coach, but the one before her. And there were times that I thought a few of the other moms had too much control
when it concerned the squad. But I never considered starting a blog, threatening a lawsuit, or keeping things stirred up.
I had enough respect for the previous coach to trust that she was making decisions in the best interest of the girls, and I never had any issues with the paperwork she required us to sign and turn in to her.
From what I can gather, the same rules that have been in place for several years are currently the ones being used by the new coach. I could understand she might have been reluctant to develop an entire new set of rules that would apply to veteran members of the squad who were used to the old rules. For those of you with daughters still on the team, these rules are not new to you.
I actually commend this new coach for tackling this Herculean task. Dealing with students in class and their parents out of class can be stressful, because we all want the best for our children. Dealing with 10, or 12, or 14 teenage girls and their parents has to be even harder.
I do not know the new coach, but I do know this is not an academic issue. How she reacts with her students may be totally different from her interaction with the cheerleaders.
Have you ever heard the old agage: "People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones"? You might want to think about this.
Have you really thought about why the old coach quit in the first place? Do you think you could do a better job with the team? Would your child be the one receiving preferred treatment? Why have you not approached the director of schools and asked to be the coach? Are you just mad because you didn't get your way? Are you upset because you can't tell everybody on the squad what to do? Do you have a problem with authority figures? Is this why you keep on keepin on with your tirade against the new coach?
In response to anonymous. If you had a former cheerleader are you saying that you would have no problem with the coach grabbing her and making inaproperate statements about your child. There will always be some problem between teachers and parents. But when a teacher breaks the rules you can't just ignore it. The least that should have happened would be a investigation. The schools and adminstrations response makes the coach look guilty. Because if there wasn't anything to it they would have responded. By trying to cover it up it shows where there is smoke there is fire. I don't think the parent wants to coach I think she wants her child treated just like all the others. Why should her child be humilated and harrassed because of who she is? Would you have been okay with your child being treated this way? The coach is an adult, she should be able to act like one. The parent appears to have went thru the right channels. But when the Mr. Lewis and Mrs. Fox, irgnored or slammed doors in their faces, they left the parents very few options. This system is out of control. Because of the problems and the systems reponse they force people to have to seek legal action to be heard. Just like in the last court case, it argued that they violated state law. It wasn't dismissed so they must have proved their point, that the law was broken. Every child should be treated fairly, that is what this is about. No child deserved to be treated this way by a teacher or coach. They are to set the example. What needs to happen is a fulll investigation, and a resolution to the problem. It dosen't have to be one is totally right or wrong, but what is best for the kids. The students are the ones who lose, they are watching and learning, that adults make and break rules. These kids are not dumb, they saw what happened and they know if it had been another child it would have been handled differently. They have seen it happen in the past. If this girl was someone elses child it would never have happened. I ask you would you want your child treated this way? I wouldn't and I wouldn't want yours treated like this either. You can't say it is a disguntal parent there are to many people who saw it happen. When you have this many people with the same story, there is truth to it. The kids will tell you that it happened. They will also tell you if she had been another child it would not have happened.
ReplyDeleteSports Mom - I actually commend this new coach for tackling this Herculean task. What task would that be? After talking to some of the cheer parents this coach talks about these kids like they are hoodlums. She has told her team they are lucky she took them because no one else wanted them. I have been at games and heard how this women talks to these girls it is shocking. You were wrong in your comment that the rest of team have stayed with her. When she took over last year two seniors quit , this year two have quit, a senior didn't try out and this girl pulled by her parents. I dont beleive ghs parent wants to take over as coach or file a lawsuit. Maybe you should read her blog. If the teacher, coach, school, princpal. administration handle this then I am sure this parent would be reasonable. From what I have read she just wants the school to do RIGHT. If the teacher/coach had acted in the matter a coach/teacher should then we wouldn't be reading this blog at all.
ReplyDeletesportsmom did read this blog? did ghs parent force this coach to talk bad about her daughter, share personal information with other parents, or worst of all force her to grab & shove her child so she could take over the cheer team? whats next world domination? other posters have witnessed the complaints read the blog. you said your daughter cheered and those years were some of the happiest times of her life so tell us how your daughter would feel if she was forced to sit out of these times out of spite because the coach had a problem with you.
ReplyDeleteA big bunch of complainers? That is funny. Keep going ghs parent our schools need change.
ReplyDeleteIn response to sports mom the student or parents are not the ones breaking or fighting the rules the school and administration are. Instead of following the rules they are changing them to retaliate against this child. This family is trying to get the school to follow their own rules. I know that is hard for people to believe that our schools & Director of Schools are sometimes forced to have to follow their own rules. I do not really understand why you have a problem with that unless you are closer to the situation then you are saying. You need to think about the fact that next time this could be your child, would you have the same respect and trust for a coach if she grabbed, shoved, gossiped or shared personal information about your child? This mom is fighting for not just her child but all of us that have kids in SC.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous how do you think it would look for our schools if our teachers were removed in handcuffs. Do parents need to call the law everytime a teacher acts inappropriately or should our school districts be allowed to handle these complaints? Be careful you could be opening a can of worms when you give the advice of calling the law against teahers as a resolution.
ReplyDeleteob 1, don't you think 9 months is more than enough time to give the school district to handle this matter? what recourse is left to these parents? how do you think it looks for our schools when a teacher is allowed to grab and shove students in a gym full of people and nothing gets done about it? what is worse here? i will come down on the side of the child and protecting them every time. teachers should never grab and shove a student, unless their lives are in danger. i don't think that was what was going on in that gym.
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ReplyDeletewould it be differnet if it was your child? I bet it would. If the school and adminstrators did their job and investigate parents would not be forced to call the law. The parents are running out of time and the systems has left them few if any options.
If this parent was so against the teacher from the beginning as posted by others I am sure she would have had the teacher taken out of school in handcuffs without a second thought. I dont think this is about a parent trying to control a teacher but a parent trying to get justice for their child. Keep Fighting GHS Parent!
ReplyDeleteLewis and the administration at GHS need to do whatever is necessary to get this matter resolved. This has gone on for way too long. Everyone knows about this, and lets face it, the fact that they are allowing a teacher who was seen by many, many people grabbing and shoving students still continue to be a teacher and a person of authority at that school makes them look really BAD and caring more about keep the status quo rather than dealing with a tough situation. To my knowledge, the fact she did this has never been disputed by anyone, including herself, her assistant nor anyone else present that night. All other issues aside, this is a violation of the school board policy and most especially the law. What else does anyone need to know? Can someone come up with a justification for this? I have yet to hear one. This child has to see this teacher every day, how do you think she feels about that? Put your child in her place and yourself in her parents. What would you do and how far would you push to get justice for you child?
ReplyDeleteyou need to get your story straight and also you better watch who you are accusing, because you might have someone sueing you. Grow
ReplyDeleteup and get over it. Is this all you have to do? You are just mad because you can't run the show. If you are not happy with this school system and the rules-- go somewhere else.
The parent wants the school to follow the rules so why should they move? What exactly does this parent want to run? Several people on the blog witnessed & confirmed the teacher grabbing & shoving their daughter so what story do they need to get straight? Would you be happy with a school system that treated you this way? Again folks like you are why our school system is the way it is.
ReplyDeleteAll I can say is WOW too! I graduated from GHS and must say this is a great school. You are lucky to have had 3 children go here and this be your first problem. As a parent or student you will not agree with decisions other people make. However, just like you they have a job to do. They too have rules to follow. And this teacher/coach that was so awful to your child.... If you knew she was so awful why would you allow your daughter to cheer under her in the first place. And why are there still other girls cheering with no problems.
ReplyDeleteOne of your blogs you said you have taught your daughter to stand up even if she is standing alone. Has it ever occured to you, you are also teaching her to blame everyone else when things do not go her way. You are teaching her to go public and bash someone else's name to prove what? What do you think you will really accomplish by adding more fuel to the fire? There are two sides to every story but the thing is they can't tell their side and you know that.... I could see how that makes running their name in the ground a little easier for you. Have you thought how you are making your daughter feel. She is going to a school every day with people walking on egg shells around her so they will not be the next person on your little blog of complaints. And by the way. I graduated college. I had a few "black marks" and made it just fine. In the big world outside of high school drama, they could care less what went on in high school especially if she is as good as you say. I am appalled at how many parents send their children to school every day and despise the people that are preparing them for their future. I agree with Mrs. Fox, if you do not like the school TRANSFER! It is that simple. If your child is so important to you, why are you investing so much time on a computer when you could be spending time with her? You said her window of high school got broken. You pulled her off the team. You have written dates with what others have told you before you pulled her off the team (thats a dead give away you were looking for something to complain about)You have dedicated a whole website to how bad you are your daughter were treated. Is this about you or your daughter... it is hard to tell? You are teaching her alot right now but I am unsure how positive it is. Last thing - if you think you could do a better job then go to school and get your qualifications to do so. Until then you really just have decisions to make. Accept the things that have happened. If you feel you both were done wrong, let forgiveness be what you teach your child. That will be the hardest thing you could ever teach her but you will be blessed for it. Relocate to a different school to see things you do not like exsist in every school. Learn from how your child was done and not react in a childish way. Or build a bridge and get over it! High school is short and you aren't not helping the situation by bashing the people she spends 8 hours a day with. Life is too short to find faults in everyone. Do honestly feel like you have done nothing wrong. If so read the blogs.
You can’t honestly say you agree with the school on this? You are ok with a teacher grabbing & shoving students? You are ok with a teacher breaking privacy laws? Should all our administration be telling parents don't like it move your kid or get over it? If teachers aren't breaking laws or policies I would say they aren't scared of this parent or walking around on eggshells with their daughter. These parents have been a lot more tolerant then a lot would be. Just because your life at GHS was perfect doesn't mean they do no wrong. This isn't drama! The school, teacher and administration are breaking the law. I just pray you are not in a position of authority with children.
ReplyDeleteI am not really sure how this looks one sided there have been witnesses posting on this blog that have seen the way the teacher treated this child and her family. You must be one of Lewis’s cronies trying to run this family into the ground or scare them off. Keep fighting ghs parent and it was good to see you at the meeting last night. You are doing the right thing!!!
Anonymous – Are you saying this family needs to be worried about there daughter being retaliated against further because her family is putting the information out there for the public to read? Is there a safety concern for this child? Are you saying the people she is spending her 8 school hours a day with would do more harm to her because her family is bashing them as you put it? Does the administration at GHS let this happen on regular bases? Are we to believe that all students aren’t treated equally at GHS and do the students of the parents the administration doesn’t like get treated differently? Since you graduated from GHS you would know right? Please fill us in since you have the inside scoop.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous who graduated from GHS sounds like a Lewis Buddy to me. But maybe this girls parents should be concerned for her safety if you know all you say it sounds like she may be a target at school. Are you sitting in that school watching how this kid is being treated? Or are you one of the ones walking on eggshells?? If so you do need to watch out. People in this county are tired of the Lewis Bullies breaking the law and thinking that it is okay! You sure sound like someone I would not want near my kids and surely not as a teacher!!
ReplyDeleteTo those of you who live in this county, let us not forget the "political" situation we have in the Smith County school system.
ReplyDeleteThe majority of the teachers in Smith County are teachers here, not based on merit, but because their parents were teachers in this county. If their parents weren't teachers here, then more than likely they are married to a teacher or a former teacher. If not that, then they (and likely, as well-their parents) were a football or basketball "star" or even a "star" cheerleader. If not any of those then they are the friend of a friend or family member.
I graduated from SCHS and had many friends at GHS, even in my day the biggest clique, gossips, and pot stirrers at those schools were the teachers. They loved drama then and I am sure, from the sound of things, they haven't changed a bit!
This family's biggest obstacle is that they are "outsiders". Not only are they not related to anyone of "supposed" importance but they transferred from another county! The teachers are not able to say to "outsiders", "I knew your parents when..." (good or bad) So I think they are threatened by that.
How dare this family cause a stink in our "all mighty" Smith County School System! Especially in the highly favored athletics department!
Most people who buck this system become so intimidated that they give up, don't let that happen to you. Keep it up! Not just for your daughter but for all those who don't have the nerve to stand up for themselves.
If nothing else you are providing the teachers with their (much desired) daily dose of teacher's lounge and lunchroom drama, I am just sorry your daughter has to suffer for it.
Good Luck!
First and foremost I do not know this girl or her family. I was simply stating my opinion the same as you, which I also am entitled to. I do not personally know Mr. Lewis but I do think he has a lot of responsibility with his job and I respect anyone who can stay silent when so many people are against his decisions. I think it takes a big person to deal with people and conflict every day. I am not saying she is a “target” at school. I think you are missing the point. If you can remember being a teenager you should know the struggles every girl in high school goes through with their fellow peers and they do not need any thing else to deal with.
ReplyDeleteTo the next blog… By no means am I saying their daughter will punished further because her family is putting the information out there. I am saying there are better ways to handle problems in a mature way. Again my opinion. I think you are being a little dramatic by asking if there is a safety concern for the child. That is absurd! You are making the teachers out to be viscious people when they are not. Her family is bashing them. If you disagree how would you describe it? How would you feel if someone was attacking you and you could not respond? Isn’t that what this parent was mad about in the first place? The coach talking about her and her family. Think about it. No student at any school is treated the same way. Sad to say it but it is the truth. If you have been to more than one school or talked to their parents you would know that. I am a former student and what you call the “inside scoop” is I was given a great education at this school. They prepared me for college and my future which is what their job. Sure I did not always agree with the way some things were handled. You get that everywhere whether it be in your school, home, or workplace.
And for the next one…. I think there could have been a better way to handle the situation. By no means and I saying anything about it is right. I just think there are other ways to go about it. There is always a chain of command. Find the next one. I just do not think bashing people on the internet will accomplish her goal. I do think if parents are this unsatisfied with the school system maybe they should find the good, deal with the bad, or yes move to another school. It is to my understanding by reading the blogs that the parents were talked to and didn’t like the answer they got. What more do they want. The school system cannot change rules to appease everyone. I do not think it is fair of you to say my life at GHS was perfect and I think they do no wrong. I had issues like everyone else but I did not post them on a website for everyone to see. I took care of them and learned the way you approach situations and people are paramount in getting the desired result. And yes mam this is drama right down to your blog. You cannot accept the fact someone is stating their opinion and it is not like yours, which obviously upsets you. You do not like that I focused on the good things instead of the faults in people. That comes from experience and prayer. If you or anyone else feel the law is being broken why isn’t the law involved? Good question – any answers? I am not in a position of authority thank God. And I really do not think you are praying that. If you turn to prayer over a blog maybe you should turn to prayer about this situation. That may accomplish more! And also it is one sided when only one side is being stated. I am not trying to run any family in the ground not this family or the teachers and leaders of our county. It is not in my nature to intentionally hurt anyone the way both sides have been hurt. A cronie – lol – I have not hurt that word in years!
I agree with the anonymous post. This website is really silly and created for unhappy people to have a place to take out on other people for doing their job and stating their opinion.
ReplyDeleteI do agree with one of the bloggers; it is not really fair because the other side cannot tell their story. I grew up with this teacher, and I have known this person for 30+ years, and there is no way this coach would abuse anyone. I think the creator of this blog is upset because a new coach took the reigns, and is now looking to cause trouble. Also, if the parent removed the child from the squad, you cannot blame the coach for your child not being on the squad. I have to ask, what kind of lesson is this teaching the child, to cause drama every time something does not go her way?
ReplyDeleteSomebody asked what was the Herculean task was that the coach had taken on? I reply with the question, have you ever had to deal with 8_10 teenage girls? Teenage girls, regardless of who their parents are, are natural drama…one day they all love each other, the very next, they are not even speaking to each other. Trying to keep all that in check while at the same time maintaining a team atmosphere has to be exhausting and stressful in its own right; I commend the coach and the principal. Anybody that thinks they can do better as a coach, teacher, or principal, get the education to do it and go for it. All the other girls are still on the squad; if things were that bad, they all would have quit by now.
Food for thought….if high school is so short, how about using all your energy and spend the time with your child rather than on this blog, as she will not be a child forever?
Well it sure appears that Lewis and his Buddies have found the site. When you weren't there but you know that it would not happen because you know the teacher. Anyone can lose it, so how can you know if you were not present? I thinks the parents tried to follow the chain of command, but when decisions are changed at 9:30 after the meeting, it makes t hard to try and do the right thing. If this parent just wanted to wage war she would have alreay filed charges and had a warrent issued. She appears to be taking the path less chosen here. If Lewis and the supervisiors would follow their own policies instead of making and changing the rules to suit themselves it would be much better. Maybe all kids aren't treated the same but all kids should be treated with respect and dignity!!
ReplyDeleteYou are right and this blog is silly, we should just tell this poor girl that she learned a hard lesson. Next time a teacher grabs and pushes you just turn the other check. If a teacher talks about or attacks your religious and moral beliefs just forgive them. If a teacher humiliates or spreads horrible rumors about you just take it. Next time a situation gets to the point of exploding separate yourself to another school. Life isn’t fair and the BULLIES will always win so get over it. Now that would be a great lesson to teach all of our children right otherside?
ReplyDeleteI think what is being lost in all these comments is that a teacher GRABBED and ASSULTED a student in a gym full of people and the school is doing NOTHING about it. These parents already stated they didn't want to sue the school district or have the teacher arrested they just want the school system to do their job and follow their own rules. They didn't pull their child to make some dramatic statement they did it to protect her from the teacher which the school should have done in the first place. The school based their decision on the teacher’s side of the story only, so how can you say that is fair? Just because the parents pulled their child to protect her from being abused and humiliated at school or school functions does not make them troublemakers.
ReplyDeleteHow dare you say these 8-10 girls are full of drama, you don't know these girls or the situation. You are just assuming that because they are teenage girls they are full of drama. You are wrong in your statement that all the other girls have stuck with her, two quit last year and three have quit this year. That totals five all together which sends up red flags when she has only been a coach for less then a year. Maybe somebody should talk to the other girls and see how they feel; I find it shocking this hasn’t been done yet? Maybe the school should talk to the other child and family this teacher grabbed and pushed. From what I understand the school hasn’t even talked to the little girl this blog is about, does that sound like an investigation to you?
Just because you have known this teacher for 30+ years does not mean this didn’t happen. I would like to believe that no teacher would act or treat a child this way but read the news it happens everyday. I guess none of us will know both sides of the story or the full story unless this gets taken into a court of law.
GHS Grad - How would you feel if while attending this great school you were grabbed & shoved in front of entire basketball gym full of people? I understand the school can’t change rules to appease everyone but this family isn’t asking them to change any rules, they are asking them to follow them. You said you are focusing on the good things, what is good about a school system that is allowing a student to be grabbed, shoved, humiliated and retaliated against by a teacher and principal?
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ReplyDeleteBefore replying to my comment asking me questions you should read my previous comments. The answers are listed there as to what I would do. I will never say that GHS is not a great school. If that is what you are looking for you will not find it here. And yes mam, I do focus on the good and if you or any one else do not think it is a good school please keep in mind no one is making your children go there.
I have a question for the anonymous post that stated Lewis and his buddies found the site. Were you personally there when all that was occuring or are you going by what you heard? You seem to know a whole lot about it so I just wondered what exact you saw? And also, if you were there.... why did you not stand up for the child if you felt so strongly about the fact she was being mistreated? If you were not there how can you comment on the otherside about not being there to know what really happened. Could you clear that up because I am confused.
ReplyDeleteGrad please stop calling me mam - You never said how you would feel if while in school you were grabbed & shoved in front of entire basketball gym full of people or humiliated, discriminated, and retaliated against by a teacher or principal. How would your parents react if they were forced to sit there with no help from the people whose salaries they are paying? Would they just build a bridge to get over it when you are being made into the poster child for all of the athletes that quit over the last year? Would they move to another county to switch schools because the school system changed the rules to retaliate against you?
ReplyDeleteThese parents never said they hated the school or the teachers. As a parent of a Smith County student I know these things happen in our district all the time. Based on policy there are rules you have to follow to get things resolved and it appears these parents followed them. So what do you recommend they do when the teacher that broke laws, policy and rules is the one handing out the punishment and the school system is backing her.
i would all like to know what rule the family is asking ghs to change.
ReplyDeleteSince when did it become offensive to call someone mam? Anyway, to all of you who have a problem in me stating my opinion the solution is quiet simple. It is makes you mad or upsets you then do not read my comments. Pretty simple. I am not attacking you about your opinion, why do you question mine? I do not recall ever saying the situation was right on either part for that matter. My question is to all of you…. Did you personally witness the situation? If so why did you not take up for this child? If not, do you always believe one side without knowing all the details? Secondly, I think I am correct in saying this website was creating 9 months ago….. what progressions have been made? I have stated numerous time and will stand firm in saying this. How you handle situations and people is paramount in getting your desired result. And for the record if you know so much, how were the rules changed to retaliate against this child.
ReplyDeleteYou are right the parents never said the hated the schools or teachers however they have
created a website to bash them. By reading the blogs does it sound like they are in full
support? I will say this to you for a final time and will ask you do not question it again
without reading my previous comments…. If laws are being broken contact the law. It
will accomplish more than this website. Do not question or attack my opinion as I also
have the right to state mine. Lastly you do you honestly think it is right to go online to a
website and be humiliated, slandered, and questioned with no way to respond? I do not
think so. Again my opinion which I sure you will have something to say about.
This website was created on September 17th not 9 months ago. I don't feel you should be saying this family is bashing the teachers or GHS it is the readers that are dong that. They are providing the public with the information as to the events of what happened. The coach gave her side to the school and school district but the child was never given the opportunity to give hers. This story isn't about a child not getting her way, grade or the right amount of playing time on the field. This story is about serious laws that are being broken.
ReplyDeleteI was at the game this happened at and what they are saying did happen. The retired principal and vice principal were involved in this incident. The families and two coaches were removed from the gym and talked to outside. Of course none of us know what was said but since the coach was at the next game I would guess nothing.
I have talked to several of the cheerleading parents from last year and this year as to why no one is pulling their children. I was told this year they started with 12 girls and are down to 9. They keep thinking the school is going to do something about the way this coach treats these girls and they don't want their children to suffer the way this one has. The biggest reason is because this teacher has the principal convinced this group of parents is troublemakers so they are afraid he won’t listen to them. The coach did tell them at the beginning of the year that Mr. Medley did not want to hear their problems that they needed to come to her. Knowing Mr. Medley I find that kind of hard to beleive but based on the rest of the story it makes me wonder.
I agree with you that the parents do need to get an attorney and either have the coach arrested or file suit. That is the only way anything will get done for their child. If they only have 365 days as posted on another comment time is running out. GHS Parent while you say you don’t want to file suit that might be the only way to make the school system see that parents are tired of them protecting their own at the expense of our children.
Since when did it become offensive to call someone mam? When they are a sir.
ReplyDeleteChanging schools will not solve the issue it will just cover it up like all of the issues our county has buried. Keep fighting.
ReplyDeleteHow is this slander she did it and the school system allowed it? The rest is opinion.
ReplyDeleteTo the Anonymous who said "Lastly you do you honestly think it is right to go online to a website and be humiliated, slandered, and questioned with no way to respond? I do not think so. Again my opinion which I sure you will have something to say about."
ReplyDeleteDo you "honestly think" it is right for a child to be humiliated at school, where she is supposed to be safe, by an educator who is paid by our tax dollars to treat her responsibly?
And "slandered" give me a break! There were witnesses, besides once the accusations are put into writing for the public it becomes libel, so if this teacher really has nothing to worry about then she is the one who should be filing suit, not the family. Which I might add is contrary to your saying she doesn't have a way to respond, if she has done nothing wrong then she should defend herself in the least. I doubt there are many at the school board who haven't seen this blog, for that matter all they have to do is post anonymously themselves, they just better not do it on the clock ;), or they might get suspended for improper use of school computers, and we know that never happens!
I have an idea, why don't you just "pray about it" then forward this blog to the board yourself and see if they respond. Or better yet, explain how you would have handled this situation so differently so as to get your desired results.
Aren't you the poster who said if we don't like what you blog then don't read it? May be that you need to take your own advice!
Anonymous comment brought up a good question. If there were so many witnesses why did no one do anything?
ReplyDeleteYou people are crazy on a computer arguing because you don't agree with others viewpoints. First and last visit to the site. What happens next, standing at the game on strike with signs and shirts? outside the school? or better yet Lewis' office? I mean seriously. I have never in my life. If this is the worst thing you and your family are ever faced with you are very blessed people.
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ReplyDeleteAnonymous comment brought up a good question. If there were so many witnesses why did no one do anything?-
It is so easy to be here and say we or they should have or would have done something if we saw this type of thing happen, but the truth is we don't know what we would do if we were in this family's situation or even in one of the witnesses' situation.
I am just glad to see people responding to this blog, hopefully it will get things moving in the right direction.
How can this family present their case to the board if Lewis will not let them on the agenda? Is there any way around him?
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